关键要点
- 有孩子让 PG 得以回答“人生是否真短”:把连续的时间离散化——和2岁孩子只有52个周末,3到10岁的“圣诞魔法”只能看8次;8 无论如何都不算多。
- 既然人生真短,“人生苦短,不值得为 x”就不是修辞:凡觉得人生苦短不值得的,尽量删掉它。
- 他脑中冒出的词是 bullshit——经验的垃圾食品:不必要的会、扯皮、官僚、姿态、收拾别人的烂摊子、堵车、成瘾却无回报的消遣。
- bullshit 两种来源:被迫的(谋生多是 errands,可选雇主/客户来减少)和骗你的(网上吵架最典型——被攻击就想还击,但对方 literally 在拿走你的生命)。
- 分辨“重要的事”的启发法:问自己未来还会在乎吗?假重要的事有个尖锐的峰值,像针一样扎进意识,但曲线下面积很小。
- 别等:想爬的山、想写的书、想看的母亲,现在就去;同时“榨干”每段体验、品味当下——孩子在这方面是帮手,完美时刻多到无法不注意。
—— 本文选自东西书院 dongxishuyuan.com
PG 原话
无情地修剪 bullshit,别等着去做重要的事,品味你拥有的时间。人生苦短,就该这么过。
Relentlessly prune bullshit, dont wait to do things that matter, and savor the time you have. Thats what you do when life is short.
如果你发现自己觉得“人生苦短,不值得为某事”,就应该试着把它删掉,如果你能做到的话。
If you find yourself thinking that life is too short for something, you should try to eliminate it if you can.
出处
- 英文原题:Life is Short(2016年1月)
- 原文:https://www.paulgraham.com/vb.html
- 本书院编译 · 底本为 paulgraham.com 英文原典
中文为本书院编译(意译),关键英文术语保留原文;英文引文逐字核验为原典连续子串。
延伸阅读 · 跨篇互见
PG自述:生孩子前恐惧,生孩子后发现是世间最好的礼物;此前的恐惧多来自观察偏差。
I had plenty of happy times before I had kids. But if I count up happy moments, not just potential happiness but actual happy moments, there are more after kids than before. Now I practically have it on tap, almost any bedtime.
Youre going to have to work at the same time every day, whether inspiration is flowing or not, and there are going to be times when you have to stop, even if it is.
场景交集:决策、时间管理、专注出处:Having Kids · paulgraham.com 原文 ↗
回报与风险成正比;想找到通往伟大工作的路,就要敢把大量精力押在看似没前途的事上。
to do great work, you also have to waste a lot of time.
if you could take a year off to work on something that probably wouldnt be important but would be really interesting, what would it be?
场景交集:决策、时间管理、专注出处:The Bus Ticket Theory of Genius · paulgraham.com 原文 ↗
拖延症:分心来找你,而非你去找分心
拖延靠分心续命,而分心主动来找你;PG 的土办法是物理隔离——一台只能工作的电脑(后注:这招后来失效了)。
Procrastination feeds on distractions.
Distraction seeks you out.
场景交集:决策、时间管理、专注出处:Disconnecting Distraction · paulgraham.com 原文 ↗
学校最大的伤害不是某门课,而是把“拿高分”等同于学习,并训练你靠钻坏考试的空子获胜。
The most damaging thing you learned in school wasnt something you learned in any specific class. It was learning to get good grades.
Getting a good grade in a class on x is so different from learning a lot about x that you have to choose one or the other, and you cant blame students if they choose grades. Everyone judges them by their grades — graduate programs, employers, scholarships, even their own parents.
场景交集:决策、专注出处:The Lesson to Unlearn · paulgraham.com 原文 ↗
本区为 L2 延展案例(跨篇互见):PG 其他原典中的相关论述,仍属原典直读;引文均为逐字核验。解读与主编观点见 L3(筹备中)。